The Flex Advantage — How Psychological Flexibility Drives Workplace Performance and Resilience
- Michael Griffiths

- Jan 20
- 3 min read
Updated: Jan 27
Modern work is fast, uncertain, and filled with competing priorities. When pressure rises, so does internal noise, like self-doubt, perfectionism, overthinking, and avoidance. In this environment, being flexible is a performance requirement, not an option.
This is where psychological flexibility, which we call The Flex Advantage, becomes a competitive edge. It’s a skill that helps professionals stay present, act on their values, and perform under pressure.
At Bonmotus, we teach these skills to teams and leaders because they show up where performance really happens: in decisions, conversations, deadlines, presentations, and leadership moments.
Why Psychological Flexibility Matters in the Workplace
Most teams already have the technical skills they need. Performance struggles at moments when pressure, uncertainty, or scrutiny increase. Low flexibility often leads to:
avoidance
perfectionism
prediction loops
rumination
defensiveness
imposter narratives
When flexibility is strong, teams and leaders can:
adapt to shifting priorities
manage stress without spiralling
communicate under pressure
recover quickly after setbacks
make decisions with limited information
act based on values, not anxiety
The difference is not intelligence; it’s behavioural agility.

Resilience Through Psychological Flexibility
Resilience isn’t just about bouncing back. In performance settings, resilience means growing through setbacks while keeping behaviour meaningful. Psychological flexibility supports this growth through four main processes:
Acceptance: Allowing difficult thoughts and emotions rather than fighting them.
Presence: Staying grounded to reduce rumination and negative forecasting.
Values: Having a clear direction helps people act consistently under stress
Defusion: Stepping back from unhelpful thoughts so they don’t control behaviour.
Behavioural Effectiveness Under Pressure
Behavioural effectiveness is straightforward: do more of what matters and less of what doesn’t. Psychological flexibility promotes this by aligning behaviour with values, especially during discomfort or uncertainty. In practice, this results in:
clearer priorities
consistent follow-through
less avoidance
faster error recovery
better decision-making
reduced perfectionistic tendencies
Consider a common scenario: a leader feels anxious before a presentation. Flexibility does not eliminate anxiety but allows them to present anyway, guided by values like clarity, leadership, or contribution. Over time, their competence and confidence grow. These small behavioural shifts accumulate across a team.

The Business Case for The Flex Advantage
Most performance issues in organisations are not technical; they are behavioural. Teams waste time and resources on:
over-analysis
avoidance
rumination
self-surveillance
imposter stories
defensive communication
More information or motivation rarely solves these issues. Flexibility does by helping people notice internal noise and choose effective actions instead of reacting automatically. This ability is especially valuable in leadership, client work, professional roles, and high-stakes environments.
How Organisations Build Flex Advantage
Psychological flexibility is not an abstract idea; it is a skill that can be developed. Organisations foster it through:
ACT-informed behavioural training
Flex Moves for managing internal noise
present-moment awareness practices
values clarification for decision-making
normalising discomfort in pursuit of purpose
Workplace flexibility training does not require personal sharing, therapy language, or vulnerability labs. It focuses on practical, evidence-based behavioural skills training aimed at improving performance.
The Future of High-Performing Teams
Looking forward, teams that thrive will not only have technical skills; they will also be behaviourally flexible:
communicating clearly under pressure
managing discomfort to support values
making decisions amid uncertainty
recovering quickly after setbacks
sustaining performance over time
These abilities form the foundation of modern resilience, leadership, and execution. This vision aligns with Bonmotus’ mission to make training in psychological and behavioural skills available to organisations across Scotland and beyond.
Next Steps: Explore The Flex Advantage
Bonmotus is currently running:
Introduction to The Flex Advantage (In-Person) — 21 May Glasgow
The Performance Hour (Webinar) — 12 March
Both provide hands-on introductions to psychological flexibility for improving workplace performance, resilience, and behavioural effectiveness. If your organisation is developing teams that need clarity, adaptability, and consistent behaviour under pressure, Flex Advantage training can help.




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